Fetish or submission?

Okay, so here I sit, eating my dinner and wondering why some people are so blind.

How are they blind? Well, perhaps blind is an incorrect word.  I think that the word that I'm looking for is narrow. Or self-serving.  So many people have no understanding of the differences of the definitions for 'fetish' and 'submissive' or fetish and 'dominant'.  They think that submission is one thing and that thing is ultimately self-serving.

Why Do Many Women Crave Being Submissive?

The truth of the matter is that many women who are submissive, one would never know it if they knew them in real life. Some, sure, it'd be easy to pick them out of a line up and at first glance.

A lot of times, today's modern women are put in positions [or put themselves in them] where they have to make many decisions that used to be considered 'men's roles'. This ranges from at home on a day to day basis to at work in offices, in management positions, and when females are in a job where they went to school for years to achieve that role.

Stop the Faking!

I felt like writing a little something about this topic, not quite sure why or what the point is, but here goes.

Orgasm. Definition:
1. The peak of sexual excitement, characterized by strong feelings of pleasure and by a series of involuntary contractions of the muscles of the genitals, usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen by the male. Also called climax.
2. A similar point of intensity of emotional excitement.

With Great Power Comes Great Responsibility [Part 1]

“With Great Power Comes Responsibility”

What greater power can one receive than that to control another?

Sex In The Movies, Does It Happen In Real Life?

Ever seen a scene between two people where both come together, madly and passionately. Each removes an article of clothing without any hesitation, mishap or by any means questioning whether he or she has washed their underwear. Think about it or better yet if anyone has seen The Notebook, remember the scene between Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams. Remember the scene where the two are wet from being out in the rain, enter into Ryan's house in the movie and from there go about removing their clothes to engage in a bout of sex?

What Soundtrack

Marvin Gaye, Barry White, Isaac Hayes,

Do people listen to music while having sex? Does it heighten the mood? Get the blood pumping? For me, it does.

Raise your hand if you're thinking about sex!

Is your hand raised?

Well, is it?

Mine is. Heck, both of mine are. And if I could raise other people's hands for me, well, they'd be raised too!

You know the old saying that a man thinks about sex every few seconds? I don't doubt its truth. But what about us women? I know I think about sex every few seconds. A day doesn't go by that I'm not thinking about sex in some way or another. I'm thinking about it right now. And no, it's not because I'm writing this.

Straight, Gay, Queer, Femme, Butch, That Is Not My Name...

Straight, Gay, Queer, Femme, Butch, That Is Not My Name...

Note: This is not against anyone nor is it against anything has done or said towards anyone. This is merely a comment and curiosity as to 'gender and sexual identity words' and how it can affect me and only me in my day to day life most of all my love life. If this somehow can be related back to you, thank you for reading but I am no expert on this subject. Take this with a grain of salt and maybe a bar of chocolate.

Fact Or Fiction: Excessive Force Always Has To Be Implemented In M/s Relationships

What is force?

By the definition found electronically, force has several ways to be defined, a few of them state it as a noun and a verb. The definitions include force as:

1. physical power or strength possessed by a living being: He used all his force in opening the window.

2. strength or power exerted upon an object; physical coercion; violence: to use force to open the window; to use force on a person.

3. strength; energy; power; intensity: a personality of great force. 

4. power to influence, affect, or control

Fifty Things I Learned from Hentai


This is one of those things that has been burning in the back of my mind for some years now. Some of the more absurd / amusing things I have seen in various hentai programs...


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