Okay, so here I sit, eating my dinner and wondering why some people are so blind.
How are they blind? Well, perhaps blind is an incorrect word. I think that the word that I'm looking for is narrow. Or self-serving. So many people have no understanding of the differences of the definitions for 'fetish' and 'submissive' or fetish and 'dominant'. They think that submission is one thing and that thing is ultimately self-serving.
The truth of the matter is that many women who are submissive, one would never know it if they knew them in real life. Some, sure, it'd be easy to pick them out of a line up and at first glance.
A lot of times, today's modern women are put in positions [or put themselves in them] where they have to make many decisions that used to be considered 'men's roles'. This ranges from at home on a day to day basis to at work in offices, in management positions, and when females are in a job where they went to school for years to achieve that role.