Okay, so here I sit, eating my dinner and wondering why some people are so blind.
How are they blind? Well, perhaps blind is an incorrect word. I think that the word that I'm looking for is narrow. Or self-serving. So many people have no understanding of the differences of the definitions for 'fetish' and 'submissive' or fetish and 'dominant'. They think that submission is one thing and that thing is ultimately self-serving.
The truth of the matter is that many women who are submissive, one would never know it if they knew them in real life. Some, sure, it'd be easy to pick them out of a line up and at first glance.
A lot of times, today's modern women are put in positions [or put themselves in them] where they have to make many decisions that used to be considered 'men's roles'. This ranges from at home on a day to day basis to at work in offices, in management positions, and when females are in a job where they went to school for years to achieve that role.
Ever seen a scene between two people where both come together, madly and passionately. Each removes an article of clothing without any hesitation, mishap or by any means questioning whether he or she has washed their underwear. Think about it or better yet if anyone has seen The Notebook, remember the scene between Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams. Remember the scene where the two are wet from being out in the rain, enter into Ryan's house in the movie and from there go about removing their clothes to engage in a bout of sex?
1: either of the two major forms of individuals that occur in many species and that are distinguished respectively as female or male especially on the basis of their reproductive organs and structures
