Sex is Normal

The truth of the matter is that many women who are submissive, one would never know it if they knew them in real life. Some, sure, it'd be easy to pick them out of a line up and at first glance.

A lot of times, today's modern women are put in positions [or put themselves in them] where they have to make many decisions that used to be considered 'men's roles'. This ranges from at home on a day to day basis to at work in offices, in management positions, and when females are in a job where they went to school for years to achieve that role.

It could be something as simple as when a bill gets paid to making sure that a shipment goes out from a loading dock in a warehouse smoothly and promptly on time. Many of these women, some of which I know in person, say that they'd 'never let a man have control over them' and then ten minutes later, turn around and talk about how the romance, usually meaning the man pinning them to the bed and having their wicked way, is missing.

Some women see being romantic as flowers and a nice dinner out on the town. I see it as just knowing that my man is thinking of me and finds me desirable. To me that's romantic. But romance can be many things, something different to everyone.

Desire is what it boils down to. In all of the romance novels that us woman love to read, because we're lacking such passion in our real lives, the women are with strong willed men that make their hearts beat faster, and ultimately take on some form of a dominating role in the woman's life.

It's almost ingrained, and I'll completely leave out the primitive things for now, it's ingrained there too but that leads to far more of a debate and discussing Women's Liberation is never a fun thing.

Desire. That's what it boils down to. A Master or Dom desires the woman and because of that [often seen as romantic by many women] desire, the women feel needed, cherished. Not to forget that their panties are probably soaking wet by that point as they write it out on a computer.

Women, no matter who they are, want to feel desired, cherished, and beautiful. What is stronger than a man desiring them so much that they have to kidnap them or obtain them in some shady way to ensure the submissiveness of the woman? Not much. Those are great lengths that the law prohibits men from doing today. Does this mean that women want to be raped or kidnapped in real life? No! It does not! Real rape is a horrible thing for women to face. It's a crime. It is wrong. But that doesn't make women desire to be needed any less. It doesn't make them desire any less to be wanted, to be cherished, to be ravished passionately by a man that wants and needs them.

Driving a man to great lengths to show that he wants/needs/desires/can't live without a specific woman. What better ego boost is there? Women will submit to those desires and give the man control just to have that, the beautiful emotion that leaves them sexually fulfilled and makes them feel desirable and wanted.

Fantasy rape is something that many women enjoy. Fear is connected, on a primitive level, to their loins. When I get afraid you can guarantee that my panties are getting wet. It's just a natural fact. It happens because the body prepares to be entered and is trying to protect itself from pain and harm. This isn't true for all women, some women go dry instead. I haven’t figured out why, yet. I hope to in the future. I haven't found any studies that really are really comparative because it's a very taboo topic. It's not something women want to talk about mostly because with the way that women are taught to behave and think about sex, they don't admit to it for fear of being seen as sexually deviant.

Giving over control can be a beautiful thing, but it's not something that most women can do in their real lives. That or the women can submit in their real lives, it's just a matter of finding someone to do it with. The right person that they trust to give that control to, one that understands that being submissive doesn’t mean being property and won't hurt them. So that leaves it up to a fantasy world, the world of role playing, to make those cravings to give over control a reality even if only in literary form.